This evening I attended a presentation by David Downs at the East Brookfield Library; the title of his talk was Clutter Control 101, or How to Organize your Life by Getting Rid of Clutter, a subject that has become one of my recent obsessions. Dave is a retired third-grade teacher with a master’s degree in Creative Arts; his expertise in the subject of clutter is derived from years of personal struggle.
Dave began with some sobering statistics:
- In 1960, there were no storage facilities in the United States to speak of; today there are 40,000
- Forty percent of households cannot keep a car in the garage because there’s no room for it
- There are 380,000 items in an average 3-bedroom house
- During the course of a year, we don’t use 80% of what we own
So, why do we all have so much stuff? Here are ten common reasons:
- We might need it someday
- Our grown children have moved out but left their things behind
- We inherited stuff and don’t want to dishonor the people who gave it to us
- We can fix the broken object because it only needs a small repair
- We received gifts from people we care about and feel we have to keep them
- We can’t resist a bargain and buy stuff we don’t need
- We are collectors and have collections
- We are creative people and need materials for all our projects
- We can’t make decisions about what to do with x, y, and z
- We can’t resist attending yard sales, or shopping at flea markets or on e-Bay
So why should we care about all this clutter? One reason is psychological: we feel better when we feel more organized (how great is it when we can find things when we need them). Other reasons are practical: we can save money and save time.
How does one start? Consider your own situation and determine how you work best. One way is to schedule a regular time and stick to it. Another is to work in spurts or in one long sustained session.
And where does one start? Pick a room, or a closet, or go even smaller and pick a cabinet or drawer. Or you could pick an area, like the front hallway, which is the most visible part of the house when you walk in the door. Once an area like that is cleared out, the house will start looking so much better that you’ll feel inspired to continue with the other rooms. Or instead of spaces, you could work with categories, such as school papers, or taxes, or audio tapes, or socks (meaning, get rid of unmatched ones).
How does one dispose of all this stuff? Here are some suggestions:
- Give things to friends or family
- Sell things (yard sale, eBay, Craig’s List)
- Donate! There are lots of groups out there which will accept donations, among them Salvation Army, Goodwill, church groups, libraries, animal shelters, women’s shelters, Big Brothers-Big Sisters, Lions Clubs, local Freecycle groups, town dumps with exchanges
- Recycle! Stores like Best Buy and others can accept electronic waste
- Put stuff by the side of the road (but consider your location and the weather)
- Throw stuff in the trash! This is probably the hardest, but it can be done
- Consider paying someone to take your stuff away — this may cost you between $600-800, but in 1 day, you’ll have made a huge dent
Once you start this de-cluttering process, you need to be vigilant about not back-sliding. Think about the ten reasons above and consider how you can counter each one (example: drive on by that yard sale). Make a point of slowing down what’s coming in, and speeding up what’s going out.
Dave ended his talk with a small demonstration: he came with a handful of stuff from his house that he wanted to get rid of and thew it away in front of us!
I must say that I don’t think I came away with any earth-shattering insights, but I certainly felt validated in my belief that I ought to devote time and energy to removing clutter from my house and life. I hope to follow up this post with another detailing the progress I’ve made in de-cluttering.