For six weeks this summer, I lived two blocks away from the most popular surfing beach in Donostia-San Sebastián, la Zurriola. Most of my memories from Zurriola are positive: getting to know my roommates as we basked in the sun, diving through the waves before sunset, and watching intense matches of beach volleyball. However, there was one night at Zurriola that stuck with me more than any other and taught me the importance of demonstrating respect while studying abroad.
This night reminded me that, no matter what, I would always be an outsider in Donostia. I would always be American, not Spanish or Basque. Therein lies the point of studying abroad: to be an outsider, to learn what that means, to appreciate it, and to “do it” to the best of your ability so that you can effectively connect with the city and its people. Studying abroad means using a foreign language, trying foods you’ve never tried, celebrating holidays you haven’t heard of, gaining skills of independence while soaking up the history and culture of your host country. It should be uncomfortable in many ways, since so much of it is novel.
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